…the people who feel the need to chime in with their opinion
on your life, talents, and dreams. The
ones who say, “Really? You’re not going
to make any money doing that!” “The odds
of that happening are slim.” “That’s
going to be really difficult!” I’m
sorry, but did I ask for your opinion? No? Hmmm…interesting.
In fact, some of my favorite decisions have been the ones
that people said I couldn’t or shouldn’t be making. “That would require too much work…you haven’t
ever played that sport before…you’re going to miss out”. And yes, the decisions I made did require extra work, I did miss out on some “normal” events,
but the result was so worth it. I
developed a confidence in myself – I can
pick up a tennis racket and become a decent player without any previous
experience. (Or learn anything new if I put my mind to it for that matter!) I learned that in order to grow, you have to
force yourself outside of your comfort zone – even if that means attending
audition after audition and letting strangers evaluate your voice (which, for
the record, is one of the scariest things in the world!!!) I learned that while at first your choices
might seem crazy, silly, and stressful – they are the decisions that will
ultimately be the most rewarding.
My advice when dealing with these types of people - and I
need to do this myself - is to ignore them.
The only reason they are telling you that you can’t achieve something,
or that something is too risky, is because personally they’re too afraid to
try. Or if you go and accomplish and
conquer your dream, they are going to feel like you’re now better than
them. (And no, you’re accomplishments do
not make you any better. Let’s not get
arrogant, friends.)
So…take the plunge! Go
for it! And if you fail miserably, at
least you can stand proudly and say you tried.
Whereas the rest of the negative committee will still be sitting in
their comfort bubble carrying out mediocre daily activities. Refuse to let their insecurities and safety
nets become your own. Smile politely,
say “thanks for your input” – if you’re feeling extra generous - and then move
on with your life. Grab the aerosol and
spray their reeking, negative fumes away.
Problem solved.
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